For all those who feel like life is out to get them. For all those who feel that others don’t really care. Read this and see if this resonates for you. It certainly is stuff that I resolved for myself many years ago.
Bon courage les braves.
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EMOTIONALLY ABUSING (E.A.) to Ourselves (cont.)
Lack of Self-Care
• ACoAs were originally subjected to many different kinds of PMES care – some parents were too rigid, some too lax.
– In some families too much was expected of us – to fend for ourselves &/or take care of others – way too early. We did what we could, but even if it was OK, we never believe it’s right or good enough (More….)
– In some a hero/martyr parent did too much without teaching us how to do things, making us naive, ignorant or stupid – & dependent on others
– In others, they did way too little daily care & maintenance for us, again having to fake it, never learning to do things…
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